Quotes That Helped Me (Hard Work Edition)

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about hard work recently, putting in the hours, motivation, effort, and all of those sorts of things. I’ve always been someone who’s constantly working on something and that’s gotten worse during the pandemic, to the point where I feel guilty if I’m not working (I’m aware of how unhealthy that is and I’m working on it in therapy). I think that’s the new toxic positivity (not that that’s gone), the new idea that’s posed as good but when taken too far is actually really damaging: toxic productivity. I mean, I can see where it came from: telling people that working hard will get them further in life than hoping they’ll get lucky or whatever isn’t inherently bad but when you have famous or notable people saying that they never took a day off or are advising people to never let up… it’s well intentioned but it can sink into the brain and become something dangerous and unhealthy. It can create a mindset that sees valuable fun and relaxation and decompression time as a waste when it’s not only necessary for our health but can have beneficial and important results, like helping us to better regulate our emotions or inspire bright and shiny new ideas.

So I’ve tried to put together a collection of quotes that are about working hard but don’t encourage that work-yourself-to-the-edge-of-mental-stability mentality. At least that’s what I hope I’ve done. Hopefully they’re as helpful and inspiring to you as they have been for me.


“The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope.” – Barack Obama

“It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

“Luck is great, but most of life is hard work.” – Iain Duncan Smith

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” – Dale Carnegie

“Start by doing what’s necessary, then what’s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” – Saint Francis

“The level path is easy, but it will not bring you to the mountaintop.” – Dr. Idel Dreimer

“Dreams don’t work unless you do.” – John C. Maxwell

“Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.” – Pele

“Let us remember then that we were made to do hard things, not easy, for if we do nothing but what is easy we will not go forward; then, as there is no standing still in the universe, we will degenerate, so that by doing something a little harder each time we prepare ourselves against something really hard.” – The Agricultural Journal

“Never slow down for the world, one day it will catch up with you.” – Nike

“If you can’t outplay them, outwork them.” – Ben Hogan

“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Stay positive and happy. Work hard and don’t give up hope. Be open to criticism and keep learning. Surround yourself with happy, warm, and genuine people.” – Tena Desae

“Sometimes in life you have an appointment with destiny, and sometimes you just have to get destiny to squeeze you in.” – Robert Brault

“Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Don’t work for recognition but do work worthy of recognition.” – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

“Inspiration usually comes during work rather than before it.” – Madeleine L’Engle

“Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down.” – Charles F. Kettering

“When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” – Paulo Coelho

“Hard work spotlights the character of people: some turn up their sleeves, some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.” – Sam Ewing

“Be true to your work, your word, and your friend.” – Henry David Thoreau

“Don’t wait. The time will never be just right.” – Napoleon Hill

“It’s not about money or connections – it’s the willingness to outwork and outlearn everyone.” – Mark Cuban (I think, particularly in some industries, money and connections absolutely determine a level of success but overall, in the long run, hard work and learning everything you can will get you further in life and make your achievements all the more satisfying.)

“Inspiration is the windfall from hard work and focus. Muses are too unreliable to keep on the payroll.” – Helen Hanson

“To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.” – Eva Young

“If you make something you love, you should just put it out into the world.” – Taylor Swift


I’m not gonna lie, I love being productive: I love working through a list, ticking things off, feeling like I’ve accomplished things at the end of every day, but I’m also aware that while this urge to be productive can be helpful, it can border on pretty unhealthy. As I said, I’m working on it. Productivity can be (and should be) beneficial in our lives, not a tightrope we walk where we’re trying not to fall into unhealthy habits. Hopefully these quotes reflect that perspective rather than a toxic one.

What about you guys? What quotes do you use to motivate yourself? Please throw them in the comments!

Quotes That Helped Me (Growth Edition)

I’ve been thinking a lot about growth recently. I’ve been thinking about my own personal, emotional, and creative growth but also about growth in general, how we’re growing and changing all the time, due to both external and internal influences. And as I often do whenever turning over thoughts like these ones, I went looking for quotes. They help me make sense of my thoughts and prompt new avenues of thought. So I thought I’d share some of the quotes I found during some of my musings…


“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” – Abraham Maslow

“We can’t become what we need to be by remaining what we are.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” – Maya Angelou

“Be patient with yourself. You are growing stronger every day. The weight of the world will become lighter… and you will begin to shine brighter. Don’t give up.” – Robert Tew

“Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.” – Chinese Proverb

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” – Carl Bard

“We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it.” – Rick Warren

“Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no greater investment.” – Stephen Covey

“We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” – Anais Nin

“Rocks in my path? I keep them all. With them I shall build my castle.” – Nemo Nox

“I saw my earlier selves as different people, acquaintances I had outgrown. I wondered how I could ever have been some of them.” – Roger Zelazny

“Catch on fire if you must, sometimes everything needs to burn to the ground so that we may grow.” – A.J. Lawless

“Transitions are almost always signs of growth but they can bring feelings of loss. To get somewhere new, we may have to leave somewhere else behind.” – Fred Rogers

“Growth means change and change involves risk, stepping from the known to the unknown.” – George Shinn

“Life is all about growth and change. It’s not static. It’s not about some destination.” – Bill Burnett

“Always realize that you can get better. Your best work has not been done yet.” – Les Brown

“You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.” – Henry David Thoreau

“Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won’t have time to make them all yourself.” – Alfred Sheinwold

“If a mistake is not a stepping stone, it is a mistake.” – Eli Siegel

“People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates.” – Thomas Szasz

“You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.” – Alan Alda

“Never mind searching for who you are. Search for the person you aspire to be.” – Robert Brault

“If you don’t get lost, there’s a chance you may never be found.” – Author Unknown

“Learning how to operate a soul figures to take time.” – Timothy Leary

“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.” – Anna Quindlen

“Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes.” – Hugh Prather

“There is an eternal landscape, a geography of the soul; we search for its outlines all our lives.” – Josephine Hart

“Living is being born slowly. It would be a little too easy if we could borrow ready-made souls.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“Real birthdays are not annual affairs. Real birthdays are the days when we have a new birth.” – Ralph Parlette

“Readjusting is a painful process, but most of us need it at one time or another.” – Arthur Christopher Benson

“Growth is the only evidence of life.” – John Henry Newman

“I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be.” – Douglas Adams


Hopefully this selection of quotes has been inspiring. Inspiring rather than pressuring. Yes, growth is important but that doesn’t mean we have to strive for at it all times. Rest and the ability to be still are important too. As the quote goes, “There is literally nothing in nature that blooms all year long, so do not expect yourself to do so.” (I can’t find a reliable source for this quote so let me know if you see it attributed to someone.) We want and need different things at different times. But, if you’re ever in need of a little inspiration, this post will be here.

Quotes That Helped Me (Happiness Edition)

Today is the International Day of Happiness and no doubt social media is being flooded with posts and articles on how to stay positive and ways to find happiness, especially in the strange and unpredictable times we’re living in and coping with. I don’t think that’s necessarily a bad thing. Learning how to find things that make you happy regardless of the circumstances you’re in is a good skill to have but I’m not sure I have anything new to add to the discussion at this point in time when I’m just focussing on taking things day by day. (I liked this article though, if you want a recommendation.) Plus, given everything going on in the world right now, it felt kind of wrong and in poor taste to write about being happy or trying to be happy when maybe that’s not the natural emotional place to be.

So instead, I thought I’d continue with my series of quote posts. I thought an opportunity to look at happiness from various different perspectives might be something I could contribute today. Here are some of the quotes I found…


“I have this really high priority on happiness and finding something to be happy about.” – Taylor Swift

“All persons carry with them some means of happiness.” – James Lendall Basford

“Happiness is a form of courage.” – Holbrook Jackson

“Some pursue happiness, others create it.” – Unknown

“Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.” – William James

“Sometimes we don’t find the thing that will make us happy because we can’t give up the thing that was supposed to.” – Robert Brault

“Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” – Steve Maraboli

“I don’t think most people want to be unhappy. It’s just something they’ve gotten good at.” – Robert Brault

“Joy is not in things, it is in us.” – Charles Wagner

“But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?” – Albert Camus

“Happiness is breathlessly chasing you.” – Terri Guillemets

“There is no happiness like that of being loved by your fellow creatures, and feeling that your presence is an addition to their comfort.” – Charlotte Bronte

“Happiness pulses with every beat of my heart.” – Terri Guillemets

“The only way to find true happiness is to risk being completely cut open.” – Chuck Palahniuk

“Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.” – Robert Frost

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” – Robert Brault

“I’ve always thought people would find a lot more pleasure in their routines if they burst into song at significant moments.” – John Barrowman

“Happiness is a direction, not a place.” – Sydney J. Harris

“All happiness depends on courage and work.” – Honoré de Balzac

“Even happiness worries sometimes.” – Terri Guillemets

“The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That’s the deal.” – C.S. Lewis

“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” – Buddha


I hope these were interesting – I kid you not: there are a lot of quotes about happiness out there to choose from. But these were the ones that resonated the most with me and so I thought they might resonate with you too.