Quotes That Helped Me (Growth Edition)

I’ve been thinking a lot about growth recently. I’ve been thinking about my own personal, emotional, and creative growth but also about growth in general, how we’re growing and changing all the time, due to both external and internal influences. And as I often do whenever turning over thoughts like these ones, I went looking for quotes. They help me make sense of my thoughts and prompt new avenues of thought. So I thought I’d share some of the quotes I found during some of my musings…


“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.” – Abraham Maslow

“We can’t become what we need to be by remaining what we are.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” – Maya Angelou

“Be patient with yourself. You are growing stronger every day. The weight of the world will become lighter… and you will begin to shine brighter. Don’t give up.” – Robert Tew

“Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.” – Chinese Proverb

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” – Carl Bard

“We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it.” – Rick Warren

“Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no greater investment.” – Stephen Covey

“We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.” – Anais Nin

“Rocks in my path? I keep them all. With them I shall build my castle.” – Nemo Nox

“I saw my earlier selves as different people, acquaintances I had outgrown. I wondered how I could ever have been some of them.” – Roger Zelazny

“Catch on fire if you must, sometimes everything needs to burn to the ground so that we may grow.” – A.J. Lawless

“Transitions are almost always signs of growth but they can bring feelings of loss. To get somewhere new, we may have to leave somewhere else behind.” – Fred Rogers

“Growth means change and change involves risk, stepping from the known to the unknown.” – George Shinn

“Life is all about growth and change. It’s not static. It’s not about some destination.” – Bill Burnett

“Always realize that you can get better. Your best work has not been done yet.” – Les Brown

“You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer and forge yourself one.” – Henry David Thoreau

“Learn all you can from the mistakes of others. You won’t have time to make them all yourself.” – Alfred Sheinwold

“If a mistake is not a stepping stone, it is a mistake.” – Eli Siegel

“People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates.” – Thomas Szasz

“You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.” – Alan Alda

“Never mind searching for who you are. Search for the person you aspire to be.” – Robert Brault

“If you don’t get lost, there’s a chance you may never be found.” – Author Unknown

“Learning how to operate a soul figures to take time.” – Timothy Leary

“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.” – Anna Quindlen

“Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes.” – Hugh Prather

“There is an eternal landscape, a geography of the soul; we search for its outlines all our lives.” – Josephine Hart

“Living is being born slowly. It would be a little too easy if we could borrow ready-made souls.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“Real birthdays are not annual affairs. Real birthdays are the days when we have a new birth.” – Ralph Parlette

“Readjusting is a painful process, but most of us need it at one time or another.” – Arthur Christopher Benson

“Growth is the only evidence of life.” – John Henry Newman

“I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I intended to be.” – Douglas Adams


Hopefully this selection of quotes has been inspiring. Inspiring rather than pressuring. Yes, growth is important but that doesn’t mean we have to strive for at it all times. Rest and the ability to be still are important too. As the quote goes, “There is literally nothing in nature that blooms all year long, so do not expect yourself to do so.” (I can’t find a reliable source for this quote so let me know if you see it attributed to someone.) We want and need different things at different times. But, if you’re ever in need of a little inspiration, this post will be here.

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